IKEA — super in any language

We aren’t big furniture shoppers or interior decorators.  Other than shopping for (very lovely) bedroom sets for the kids when they were born, we haven’t purchased a single piece of new furniture since we moved into our condo in Virginia (in 2001).  Our bed frame is the metal one that came with the mattress.  (Sad, I know.)

But, with Jo being here with us for a while, and us not wanting her to have to sleep in the living room the entire time, a change was in order.  We’re moving the boys in together (which they are, at least in theory, very excited about) and Jo will be moving in to what is now Liam’s room.  We have a futon, where she’s sleeping now, but we had to either buy her an actual bed for her room, leaving the futon as our “couch” in the living room, or move the futon in to her room and get ourselves a new couch.  Either way, we needed to buy some new furniture.  Not wanting to spend too much, and not having any real clue about where to buy furniture in Austria, we went for the Swedish solution — IKEA.

IKEA has the plus of being equally unintelligible to us whether we’re in the US or in Austria, so although we had a language barrier, it wasn’t that much more than anyone else would have shopping there, which was a little comforting.  Plus, you can get there via public transport.  Benjamin stayed home with Jo, and Dan & I went shopping along with Liam.  It was really nice (and unusual) to have some Liam time with both parents, and it was easier to navigate getting there and getting through the store with only one child (although we missed having B with us).

We had a great time.  IKEA, apparently, has everything you ever needed (plus a lot of stuff you never realized you needed untill you got there).  We found ourselves a new couch (Jo swears she doesn’t mind continuing to sleep on the futon, and we’re kind of excited about having an actual couch for the first time in over 10 years), a bathroom cabinet, a new rug, some pillows, some duvets (and covers) for the boys’ new room, trash cans, towel hooks, coat hooks and some other fun stuff.  (Seriously, does anyone come out of there with just what they had on their list when they went in?)  And, we did the whole thing — travel there, shopping, figuring out the checkout process (that part was harder in German) and getting back, in just over 4 hours, which was pretty amazing.

And, the best part:  they’re delivering it — ALL of it, everything from the couch down to the towel hooks — on Monday morning.  We came home on the bus and the train with just ourselves and Liam, which was pretty fantastic and a lot easier than trying to carrying home a huge area rug on the subway.

So, it was a great day.  I’m an IKEA convert, and I’m really excited to be getting some much needed and long overdue stuff for our place.  I think Jo will be happy to get out of the living room, too.

Why I love social media

I’ve said it before, but there are times when I still find it amazing:  we live in the future.  Last night, as I was checking out what my friends have been up to (via Facebook) I saw a message from a close childhood friend, asking for help.  Her 3 year old daughter had been in the hospital for 5 days with an extremely high fever.  They weren’t getting the progress or the answers they needed, so she wanted to know if anyone she knew happened to be, or could recommend, an infectious disease expert.  I’m not, and I can’t, but I did what I *could* do — I reposted the request on my Facebook wall.

Within minutes, several of my friends reposted the request (including people I haven’t spoken to in person in years as well as at least one person who I’ve never actually met) and several others responded with information and suggestions.  The posts that my friends made resulted in some very helpful responses from *their* friends, some directly to my friend who needed help, resulting in a very cool instantaneous network pooling the resources of dozens of people for the benefit of one 3 year old girl, who most of these people will never meet.  All of this, which equalled many prayers and at least 4 concrete leads for my friend to follow up on, happened in just over an hour, and didn’t require more than a few minutes of any one person’s time.  This pattern was repeated by many friends who read my friend’s initial request, and I’m sure it created a wealth of new information and ideas for her to draw upon.

I think that is fantastic, and I think it is an amazing glimpse into the power of good that can come from being able to call upon the many wonderful relationships we have in the real world by using the simple, immediate connections provided to us by technology.  God willing, it will help my friend get some answers for her daughter.

2 weeks, 1 day

We were so fortunate to have been here to enjoy the Viennese Christmas season last year. It is so lovely — the markets are inviting and festive, the lights make everything seem magical, and the entire spirit of the season here focuses on the religious part of Christmas and being together, rather than on shopping.

Plus, it starts early, and without the guilt of short-changing anything else. There’s no Thanksgiving here, and very little Halloween, so once the autumn harvest has been celebrated, the door is open for Christmas.

The first of the Christmas markets open in just over two weeks, and several of the first ones are close to my house. I love this time of year, and I’m excited to begin to enjoy the wonder and warmth of Christmastime.

Happy Halloween, Vienna!

Being our second Halloween in Vienna, we felt much more prepared this year.  We knew we would go trick-or-treating (weather permitting, and the weather did cooperate), we knew where we would go (near the American International School in Dobling, the 19th district) and we knew how we would get there (or so we thought — we got waylaid using public transportation AGAIN this year).  So, we decorated treat bags for the kids and got them dressed in their costumes.  We didn’t go super elaborate on the costumes for the kids this year, and Dan & I didn’t wear anything that would count as a costume, because last year, the average level of enthusiasm and participation was pretty mild.  Of the adults, Jo was the most dressed up, with some devil’s horns and a red feather boa, but I thought she might be a bit overdressed compared to the other grown ups that would be there.

But, wow, were we surprised.  Even just since last year, things have changed.  Vienna is catching on to this whole Halloween and trick-or-treating thing.  We went to the same neighborhood as last year, and visited many of the same houses.  We arrived earlier than last year (when we actually got quite lost on the way) and encountered WAY more people trick-or-treating — probably 10 times as many as we saw last year.  The average age was a lot higher, too (particularly surprising because we arrived over an hour EARLIER than we did last year).  Most of the kids we saw were in the 12-15 year old age range, with a few closer to 8 and a very few younger, like around 5.  Other than one little girl we saw, our kids were definitely the youngest out trick-or-treating (although we saw several young kids helping to hand out candy).  With our slight misadventure on the way (missing a bus which put us half an hour behind schedule) we definitely arrived later than we’d intended, but we were still pretty surprised to see so many older kids out, and so few young ones.

A lot more of the kids were in costume this year, and many of the costumes that we saw were remarkably elaborate.  There were still a fair number of older kids not in any type of costume at all, but that didn’t seem to get in the way of their candy collection.  The average costume was more spooky rather than cute, even for the younger kids — some of the masks we saw were downright scary, and were probably being worn by kids younger than 10.

By far, most of the kids were out with none, or very limited (like parents waiting at the end of the block) parental supervision.  There were a few moments where things got a little too rowdy for the littles ones (Liam and I were narrowly missed by a thrown snowball) and in general, there wasn’t a ton of the “trick-or-treat etiquette” that we’re used to at home (although maybe we’ve just been lucky).  In general, the big kids weren’t keen on waiting for the little ones to finish their slow process through saying “Trick or Treat!”, receiving the candy, thanking the giver, and then admiring the decorations, costumes and/or treat bags.  They didn’t exactly push, but there was a lot of impatience.  We also saw a lot of shaving cream and silly string that had been spread around liberally (even at houses that were giving out treats) even though it was really early in the evening.

Among the houses along the route, the conventions we’re used to weren’t followed, either.  There were several houses with lit pumpkins and porch lights on where no one was home (or at least, they didn’t come when we rang the bell) and a few houses that did give out candy that had no outward indication that they would do so — we only knew because we saw other people there, collecting treats.

We had a great time, and the level of enthusiasm we saw was really fun.  Along with lots of extra trick-or-treaters, there were more houses giving out candy, and the ones that were seemed to be better stocked than last year.  (We visited several houses last year that ran out unexpectedly early, and they seem to have been prepared for the vastly increased onslaught this year.)  Several of the houses were much more thoroughly and spookily decorated (complete with elaborate scenes in the front yard, creepy music and costumes).

Trick-or-treating (and Halloween in general) are definitely catching on in Vienna, but most of the people we encountered, both trick-or-treaters and candy-giver-outers were still Americans, and those who weren’t were mostly English speakers.  But, there were definitely more German speakers participating this year than last.

In all, we probably visited about 15 houses that gave out candy — just the right number for a two and four year old who were walking the whole way.  My boys did great — saying “Trick or Treat!” and “Thank you!” at every house, helping each other out and walking the whole way.  (Liam refused my offers to carry him, even after we were done, and wouldn’t let anyone else hold his candy bag — “It’s mine!” he told us.)  We had another fun Halloween trick-or-treat adventure in Vienna, and we feel like we’re helping to blaze a trail and set the precedent.

Frankenstorm

I was born and raised in Maryland, and most recently lived in Virginia.  I’ve never lived anywhere outside of those two states (before moving to Austria, of course).  My family still lives in Maryland, and most of my friends live in Maryland or Virginia.  Growing up, my grandmother had a condo on the beach in Ocean City, MD, and I have fond memories from early childhood through this past summer based on the Maryland (and Delaware, and North Carolina) shores.

So, I’d been doing my best to keep up with the information unfolding over the past few days about the “Frankenstorm” and trying to separate actual concerns from excessive hype.  As of yesterday evening, everyone I’d kept in touch with was doing fine, but the worst of the storm that had demolished and flooded several of my dearly loved beach destinations hadn’t yet reached them.

I was wondering, this morning, how things were going.  I wasn’t hearing back from anyone, but it was still the middle of the night where they were, so I wasn’t too worried — I was hoping that they were all sleeping soundly.  The reports from New York and New Jersey sounded awful, but it sounded like the more inland portions of Maryland and Virginia were spared the worst of the storm.  In fact, based on the few anecdotal reports I was seeing on Facebook, it looked like the Frankenstorm was another case of an over-hyped disaster scenario.

But, then I saw that the storm was featured on the front page of “Heute”, one of Vienna’s daily newspapers.  I haven’t seen a front-page article about something happening in the US *at all* since we’ve been here, let alone an entire front page.  As the day went on, it does, indeed, sound like the storm was very much as terrible, forceful and deadly as it was made out to be, it’s just that the people I know personally were fortunate to have avoided most of those parts of it.

I feel very distant from it, over here.  It feels like it’s happening far away, to someone else . . . because it is.  Which is obvious, but it’s different from how I would have felt a year ago.  This doesn’t feel like “my” disaster.  I feel grateful that my friends and family are safe.  I feel sad that so much damage was done, and I feel anger and frustration that people died (especially those who died unnecessarily).  I feel overwhelmed at the amount of work there will be to repair and rebuild in the wake of this storm.  I feel awed by the amount of effort that will be put forth by so many people just to make normal life happen around them in the coming days, weeks and months.  But, it all feels very far away.  And that feels very strange.

Making lanterns

Every time we’ve been invited to B’s school for a Parents Night or a Family Night, we’ve had a great time, and we had another lovely time this evening. Tonight they had the families come and help the kids make and decorate lanterns for the annual Lantern Night (celebrating St. Martin) which will happen next week.

20121029-213338.jpgWe all got to go tonight — me, Dan, Benjamin, Liam and Jo. Benjamin decided he wanted an orange lantern, and we all helped him paint it, and decorate it with a few paper pumpkins and some more paint (red this time). Benjamin also gave us a mini-tour of his classroom (focusing mainly on the cars he likes to play with).

20121029-213351.jpgIt was a lot of fun to do some messy arts and crafts with B and Liam, and really nice to see how well B has settled into school and how easily he handles transitioning between English and German. It was fun for us because we were able to actually socialize a bit with the other parents for the first time, and with three adults for the two kids, it was significantly less exhausting than usual.

We had a great night, and now we’re especially looking forward to Lantern Fest next week, because we’ll all get to see to see the fruits of the kids’ (and the adults’) hard work!

First snow and carving pumpkins

It was only a very light dusting, but we woke up this morning to a coating of snow on the rooftops and freezing temperatures. Winter does come early to Vienna — we’re supposed to get more snow tonight, and the high temperatures will be in the 30s and 40s for most of the week (it might get up to a toasty 50, with rain, on Friday).

20121028-211209.jpgWe haven’t forgotten that it’s fall though — our main family activity of the day was carving our pumpkins and lighting them for the first time. B chose the design for the big one (kind of — apparently I did the wrong kind of happy face, but he’s ok with me trying again next year) and I designed the little one. I cut the big one, Dan cut the little one, and Liam supervised the inaugural lighting.

So, we’re enjoying autumn while welcoming winter. I wouldn’t mind a few cool, crisp autumnal days, though, before we settle in for our long, dark winter.

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Rain coats and rain boots

We’d had plans to go to another pumpkin festival today — one a little further away, about an hour outside the city, in Retz.  (We went last year and really enjoyed it.)  But, the weather was too unpleasant to spend the day outside.  So, we changed our plans from looking at pumpkins to hanging out with friends.

That still required going out in the weather, though, so we got the boys suited up in rain coats and boots and ventured out.  As soon as we got down to the courtyard, the boys galloped out over the cobblestones and started splashing enthusiastically in puddles.  The stomped and they jumped, in little puddles and in big ones, and they splashed water all around.  We met up with a neighbor and while we adults were chatting with him, we let the kids play.  Every time someone would walk by, they’d take a break from their splashing so it didn’t get any unsuspecting passersby soaked, too.

They went on like this for a few minutes, so that by the time we were 20 yards from our front door and had been out of the house for about 10 minutes, they had redistributed much of the accumulated water in our courtyard (and Liam had fallen down twice).  They were happy, though, and not too wet, and it was remarkable how unsatisfied they were by their long moments jumping in puddles — Liam insisted on stomping through or jumping into every puddle on the way from our building to the train station.

As much as I was a little disappointed to miss all of the pumpkin fun in Retz this year, I was glad to have my little guys stay mostly dry and warm today, other than getting themselves wet by choice, emptying every puddle in their path.

Am Himmel Kurbis Fest

We had such a great time last year at the Kurbis (pumpkin) Fest at Am Himmel, here in Vienna, that we made it a priority to return this year.  Last year, we really didn’t know what to expect going into it, but this time, we were much more prepared, and ready for lots of wonderful pumpkiny goodness.

It’s a bit of a trek to get there from our house via public transportation (the only kind of transportation we have).  It took nearly an hour, and involved a strassenbahn (streetcar), a bus and a 15 minute walk — but, as last year, it was well worth the effort.  We started by playing for a short while on the nice, wooden playground, followed by about a half an hour of fruitless attempt to get our kites up in the sky.  (There was a tiny bit of breeze, but we just weren’t having any luck.)

Then, we got to the really good stuff — the pumpkins!

Next was lunch.  We had langos (a traditionally Hungarian fried flatbread type thing) covered with garlic, pumpkin seed pesto (which may be my new most favorite thing to eat) and pumpkin seed oil, as well as pumpkin cream soup.  Benjamin, who started the meal insisting he wouldn’t eat anything other than pizza, ate nearly an entire langos himself, and Liam consumed an entire bowl of pumpkin cream soup, pumpkin seeds and all.

Then, we went for face painting.  B had told us, repeatedly, that he wanted to be a red and orange dragon.  We were skeptical that this would be possible — I would have expected it to be impossible if we’d been able to communicate in English, but in German, I thought our prospects were dim.  I was surprised, then, when he reached the front of the line and told the face painter, “I want something red!” and she replied (in English), “How about a dragon?”  He turned out as the cutest dragon I’d ever seen.  Liam must have agreed, because he decided he wanted to be done exactly the same as Benjamin.  He sat, quietly and happily, but only through the red base paint, and then he decided he was finished (but he was thoroughly happy with what he got, too).

So, with our two cutest dragons in tow, it was time to select pumpkins!  B walked right up to the pumpkin stand and chose a pumpkin half his own size.  We have a family rule that you can’t pick a pumpkin that is too large for you to carry, so he selected the one immediately next to it, and was done.  He proudly announced, “I found the perfect pumpkin!”  Liam selected a tiny pumpkin, and he was happy too.  Last year, the boys wanted to wait until we got home to carve our pumpkins, but this year, they opted to do them at the festival, so we borrowed a spoon and a knife, and started work.

We didn’t get very far, though, because about halfway through, B got too cold to continue (it was only about 50 degrees, with a little breeze, and lots of clouds) so we scooped the pumpkins out (giving us less to carry home) and headed back home . . . with stops to purchase honey cookies and excessive amounts of pumpkin seed pesto on our way out.

We had a great time.  We feel very festive and autumnal and pumpkiny today.  It was our plan to attend a different pumpkin fest tomorrow, but the weather looks pretty dismal (colder than today and raining) so this will probably be our only pumpkin fest for this year.  It was a good one.

Jo is here!

So, she made it!  All the way across the Atlantic, a layover at Heathrow and then on to us here in Vienna.  She’s in one piece, she has all of her luggage, and she’s been in surprisingly good spirits — especially considering Liam screamed through the entirety of dinner.  Welcome to Austria, Jo!

Truly, I’m impressed.  It was a big trip to take alone.  It’s a big step to take.  She’s here, far away from most of her family and all of her friends, stuck with me, Dan, Benjamin, Liam & Bailey.  (Ok, B, Liam and Bailey are pretty great almost all the time, but I’m not sure Dan & I rate at the same level of awesomeness.)  Our first 9 hours of being together have gone really well.  We found each other at the airport, got her (and all of us, and all of her stuff) safely home, took naps and ate dinner.  So far, so good.

I hope she has some notion of what she’s in for (or an awful lot of patience and optimism).  The boys are very excited to have her here — Benjamin invited himself for a sleepover with Jo already on her first night here, and although she’s making a valiant effort to sleep, he’s still awake (so I don’t know how well that’s going).  I am very excited that she’s here, and so looking forward to sharing Vienna with her — there is so much I want to show her!